Prayer for Our Nation

Dear Church Family

“Today, as another black man is gratuitously killed before a crowd of witnesses while unsuccessfully appealing to the humanity of a white police officer, we are reminded that the traditions of hate and murder are alive and well and actively venerated. We can see that the worship of the godling of racist hate and murder survives in the act of a Minneapolis police officer kneeling on the neck of a handcuffed man as he cries out, “I can’t breathe!”

(From an article in RNS, Religious News Service, by Cheryl Gilkes)

   I write to our NBUMC family to cry out to God in prayer for the end of racism in America. This action and the many like it are unacceptable to our Creator. We are approaching Pentecost, when the Breath of the Holy Spirit came upon us and all nations, that we might be closer to the nature and quality of life, of Jesus Christ, and God’s love for one another.

   Can we take a moment for prayer for the end of racism, at noon, for instance? Our Baltimore-Washington Conference Bishop Easterling, has invited us to pause and pray the Lord’s Prayer each day at noon. The prayer is that the will of God be done, on earth as it is in heaven. The prayer asks God to forgive our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And it is asking God to help lead us not into temptation. Surely the racism and hatred that is shown is a temptation that must be eliminated. Prayer does make a difference.

   So please, during this day and every day, pause to pray for peace in our country. Pray that we recognize that Black Lives Matter. Pray that God’s love means all, will spread out and make a difference, regardless of our color, ethnic heritage, sexual orientation, life experiences etc. All Means All.

   We are fighting a challenge brought on by a physical sickness in the Covid-19. We also are fighting a more invisible internal sickness of racism, prejudice and hatred, that needs just as much, healing as the other.

   May you sense that God will supply the Holy Spirit to us and to our world that so desperately needs to learn a better way to love and treat one another.

   Remember to pray, a lot, today and the days that are ahead.

Pastor Jeff

More Than A Memorial Day

Dear Church Family

   This is a special letter to invite you to join us on Wednesday May 27, yes tonight, for a special AWE (Alternate Worship Experience) for what I’m calling More Than A Memorial Day. It’s never too late to remember our armed forces men and women who gave the ultimate sacrifice, so we could have our freedom of worship.

   Tonight’s More Than a Memorial Day, is also part worship in remembering those who have died during this Covid-19 Pandemic. The count is over 98,000 and climbing. We are praying for the families of those who have died, and praying for those who are working so hard to help save those who have it, and to those who are working so that we all don’t get sick.

   Tonight’s More Than A Memorial Day, is also a time to give thanks for those who have blessed us spiritually, to remember those who helped us in our faith journey. We want to remember and give thanks for those who have nurtured our faith, and pushed us, and lived an example before us to help us to mature in the faith.

   I hope this can be a time of reflection, giving thanks to God, for the work and sacrifice of others, and to know that you are not alone in this struggle. A recent webinar that I attended for pastors shared with us that about 1/3 of our communities are suffering some form of depression, discouragement, grief and stress over the impact of this pandemic. Prayer and worship, and the presence of God in a community of loving people is very import.

I hope you join us, and I hope you share this invitation with people you know who could really use some encouragement and support. God loves them, and so do we.

Blessings on our church family, and all those who we can touch with God’s love and support.

Pastor Jeff

Long Weekend Ahead

Dear Church Family

   Halfway through May 2020 and we are in the midst of many areas opening up for more participation, and more opportunities to spread the virus. A church in Georgia, even with careful distancing, had almost half of their congregation get sick, they have shut back down. Texas, one of the first to open up opportunities has a 1,000 more cases two weeks later. We are practicing John Wesley’s Do No Harm, as best we can, by remaining out of our building and share our worship gathering via Zoom. We will continue to do so, until it really is safe.

   This weekend has many features and I invite you to join us in them. Wednesday night at AWE, we will celebrate Ascension Day, a day early, it’s usually a Thursday. Ascension is the remembrance of Jesus’s final day on earth before returning to his Father in Heaven. We want to invite you to join us for our AWE, even if you haven’t before, so we can see how God is preparing us for times like these. In many ways it’s a celebration of Mission Accomplished. Jesus has done what he planned to do, and is now going home. We look forward to a mission accomplished moment for our congregation and we will have that gathering someday.

   Sunday is Aldersgate Day, when as Methodists, we commemorate John Wesley’s conversion experience. He saw it as one of his most important days in his life. We get a chance, with these stay at home times, to participate more fully in the celebrations that normally collide at this time in May. This coming Sunday can be Ascension Sunday, Heritage Sunday, Memorial Day worship all rolled into one. But doing that can be a mess. My youngest brother Kelly was born on Dec. 22 and in a pastor’s household, with all the Christmas and Advent activities, he felt really gipped, they all rolled into one and he felt like he missed something. We are spreading out this festival combination more carefully this year, because we can.

   Monday is Memorial Day, we when pause to give thanks to those who made the ultimate sacrifice and gave up their tomorrows, so we could live ours. Please pause to give thanks, and to remember the women and men who died defending our country. In this pandemic, even Arlington Cemetery is restricting visitors to immediate family only, by appointment and only to the area where their relative is buried. But we can choose to stay home and recall their sacrifice. I’m in the process of preparing a moment to remember and will give you more details about that opportunity to pause and pray on Monday. Details will be shared on Sunday.

   This week is the Homiletics Festival, a great celebration of preaching and it’s usually packed with pastors seeking to be inspired and encouraged. With the pandemic, it’s online this year, and also free. I’ve been grabbing some moments here and there for my own inspiration. I’m thankful to hear from others, so they can help me do a better job with the Message.

   In today’s sermon from a UCC pastor Dr. Otis Moss, III, I’ve been reminded of the Road to Emmaus story and the importance of letting each of us grieve the losses we are feeling right now. It stomps on our heart in big ways. We need to have permission to share that grief. On the Road to Emmaus, Jesus invited his walking companions to pour out their hearts and concerns. The second gift was the gift of companionship. We will recover and encourage each other if we value the companionship. Even if it’s on the phone, or facetime, or zooming after church. You might want to pick up the phone and call someone to share in this journey through the uncertainty and the changes we are facing because of this global health crisis.

   May God bless you and keep you, while we are absent one, from another.      

Pastor Jeff

The Joy of Zoom

Dear Church Family

   There has been a lot of discussions around us about returning to, or opening up since the quarantine and lockdown process began. There have been several presentations made by zoom, from our Annual Conference and the CDC and advisors from all over the country related to church and worship gatherings. Most recommendations are not yet, until we find a vaccine or we see a drastic reduction in the number of cases. One of our challenges is that most medical professionals warn that those who are over 60 and who may have preexisting medical issues, need to stay home. That pretty much includes a majority of our church and most of our staff. We value your health and safety above everything else. So I think we are looking at waiting in place for a while.

   I also know most of us have some form of cabin fever and are longing to get out of the house. As the weather gets better that only adds to the desire to be back to normal, back with friends, joining in worship etc. We have to be very careful.

   So I understand what we are going through, and I long for a time that looks more like what we have known. That is not going to be possible for a while. So let’s make the most of our situation and keep on sharing together in zoom, our worship, our meetings and as we improve our ability to use high tech, gatherings and Bible Studies that we will benefit from.

   I am writing to you as the provider of our worship zoom experience to share with you some of my thoughts related to what is being planned and what you have seen so far and what is yet to come. We are blessed with a very strong and supportive turnout for our zooms (zurch – zoom+church). We are also very blessed to have more and more non members finding us and joining us in worship this way. I urge you to keep inviting your friends to join our zoom. All you have to do is forward the flash with the code, when it comes, to several of your friends who might enjoy being with you in worship. These conditions have raised the spiritual needs of many people, and we can provide a place and a source of comfort through our zooms.

  We are also recording our services and putting them up on youtube, on our channel, so they could watch us at a better time for them. We just cannot put the zoom information on our website, because some have been known to jump in and provide insults, pornography and other very bad material in a zoombombing effort, when they find the direct access to our zooming on a website. That’s why we ask for individuals to share the code with friends.

   We may be at this for a while, so we will continue to be creative with our services. It is easier to be in our sanctuary, but that is not an option, so we must be creative. I am keeping in mind both our current congregation and our future potential congregation, with a balance of material in zoom. I’m also keenly aware that as we all watch from our phones, laptops, computers or TV’s the importance of the visual impact of the presentation. Therefore, I look for music and videos that are beautiful from a photographic and inspirational nature, It can’t just be words on the screen only. Unless that is the only way we can share a good song. I am also aware of the blessings that our congregation already has of many styles of music preference, so I try carefully to vary the music in honor and recognition of all the varieties of preference in our midst. This means of course, that what touches your heart, may not touch the heart of someone else. So I try to be as flexible as I can to find that something in the music and service will touch your heart, maybe not all of it. But I am also touching the heart of those who are longing to connect to God, and I hope you can bear with me, when I try to reach someone else’s heart.

   Our most important responsibility is to help people connect to God. Our second important responsibility is to connect God to each other. Our third important responsibility is to connect ourselves to making a difference in our world. I pray that our zoom experience will connect us to God and God’s comfort in our trying times. I pray that our zoom experiences help you connect to one another. I hope that the zoom experience is clearly focused on the message of God’s love to us. That message is the focus and it inspires the songs to reflect the message. It inspires the prayers to reflect the focus. I shapes the scripture and message to reflect that focus. The choices of the music will always be to tell the old old story in ways that we can understand and reinforce the focus and the message. Not every song will fit any service. They are chosen to be reflective of the focus. They are chosen to touch the heart of somebody in our midst. Hopefully they will touch your heart.

   May God bless each of us as we journey together in this unusual time. Let’s continue to pray for one another as well.

Blessings,   Pastor Jeff  

Agony of Wait

Dear Church Family

   Here we are in May, and we still struggle with when will all this end? We still struggle with what will the new order look like? Will anything ever be the same? Most of those answers are not going to make us happy. In fact, we probably need to admit, that what we have known and gotten comfortable with, won’t ever be the same. It sounds like doom and gloom, but we are in the Easter season and the coming of the Holy Spirit to help us in Pentecost. We are more like the early church than we have thought we were. It’s time to let God help us in these moments of change, uncertainty and a lot of grief.

   Speaking of Grief, we need to learn that yes, mourning the losses we have faced is healthy, if we recognize that grief is important, and that it is permitted for Christians, and that we can learn a great deal from those genuine emotional moments. Let me offer some hope and help in times like this. As you know we have all been through some losses. I’ve experienced many levels and situations of grief myself, which I hope has made me stronger and a better follower of Jesus. As many of you know, my mother was killed in an automobile accident, when a truck ran a red light. To make matters worse, it was on my son’s birthday when it happened. I’ve seen parents, in-laws, and grandparents die. I’ve been fired from work. I’ve been diagnosed with cancer, twice. I’ve been divorced. I can relate to a lot of what we are going through now.

   What helped me was recognizing that God is here in the middle of this grief, not absent from it. All we have to do is see Jesus in the garden praying that this crucifixion might pass, and hear his words on the cross, to know God is still with us. There are several ideas we can consider when we are in our grief period, and I hope you will see them for their healing power as well. I have shared these thoughts in funeral messages, but I think they are very relevant for today as well.

   Express your grief. Give yourself permission to feel the pain of losing someone, or some memories or experiences or dreams that now cannot be. Grief has many dimensions and there is no one way to experience this, but you will probably feel all of them and then again when you least expect it. But it contributes to healing. There is shock and disbelief. There is anger and rage, it seems so unfair or mean. There is depression and sadness. There is guilt and regret, sometimes we become aware of things we did not pay attention to at the time, and now they really hurt us. There is anxiety and frustration, because we cannot control what is happening to us, and we hate not having some control. With time there is relief and release. But all of a sudden, a song, a picture, a memory or dream pops up out of nowhere, and we jump to one of those again.

   Please remember that the grief you feel, is the price we pay, for the ability to love. This is especially true when a loved one dies. But in this pandemic, that we can’t do something we want to, makes us realize how important that was, but we may not have recognized it. Hugs in church come to mind.

   Ask God to help you. God is an ever-present source of comfort and hope. Just ask!

   God promises help in Scripture, and that’s why I urge you to read it so often. “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in time of trouble.” Ps. 46. “He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.” Ps. 147. “He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more.” Rev. 21. “When you pass through the waters I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you, and when you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned…for I am there by yours side.” Isa. 43. And Jesus said, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”  Matt. 5.

   Try to develop a positive avenue, we will find a way forward. Keep on thinking about ways you can grow in your faith.

Blessings to you all.                 Pastor Jeff